How well does your partner really know you?

Answer 10 quick questions about yourself. Send the link. Find out if they've been paying attention.

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UnFight: Couples & Marriage

For the moments the quiz doesn't cover: UnFight helps you pause mid-argument, find calmer words and decide what to do next. Private, no account.

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How the couples quiz works

1. Make it. Type your first name and answer 10 multiple-choice questions about yourself: comfort food, dream trip, what you want when you're upset.
2. Send it. You get a private link. Text it, DM it, or drop it in your group chat.
3. See the score. They guess your answers, see what they got right and wrong, and get a link to send you their own quiz back.

The two questions couples get wrong most

"When I'm upset, what I want most from you is…" and "After an argument, I'd rather…". Most of us assume our partner wants what we would want: space if we like space, a hug if we like hugs. Learning the real answer is one of the quickest ways to make arguments shorter and kinder.

Questions

How does the couples quiz work?

You answer 10 questions about yourself. The page turns your answers into a private link. Your partner opens it, guesses how you answered, and gets a score with every answer revealed. Then they can make their own quiz and send it back.

Are my answers stored anywhere?

No. Your answers live only inside the link you share. There is no account and no database, so nobody sees them unless you send them the link.

Can my partner cheat?

Only if they really try. The answers are scrambled inside the link, not encrypted, so a determined code-reader could work them out. It's a game for two people who like each other, so we kept it simple.

What's a good score?

7 or more out of 10 means they pay attention. 4 to 6 is normal, especially for newer couples. Under 4 means you have some great conversations ahead.

Is this good for a date night?

Yes. Make quizzes for each other, swap links, then talk through the questions you each got wrong. "When I'm upset, what I want most is…" and "After an argument, I'd rather…" tend to start the most useful conversations.

Can friends use it too?

Of course. It works for best friends, siblings and roommates. A few questions are written with couples in mind, but most are about everyday likes and habits.